The Pain We Can’t Talk About
Some couples are afraid that if you knew, you would fire them.
Attachment Frames That Live in Your Belly
One of the most effective yet underused interventions.
Paint it Green
If you’re drawn to a process like EFT, you have to embrace the art of therapy.
The Guard and the Prisoner
You see, the Guard keeps people out. But the Prisoner is desperate to escape.
We Are Not Magicians
Therapists aren’t magicians. And yet we’re expected to deliver. Quickly.
The Chase for Space
You can make a good living and feel good about what you’re doing - but what’s more important than that is how you feel in your actual life.
Ride the Rollercoaster
As “thrilling” as it is, you could actually do without the dips and turns.
The Cycle Isn’t Always the Enemy
Two different ways of looking at the cycle: 1) the annoying price of love and 2) a propulsion toward change.
Taking Sides in Your Heart
I was taking the pursuer’s side in my heart. It was so easy to do.
“Did I Go Deep Enough?” is the wrong question.
It makes sense why you would ask that. Your enactment fell flat. You end the session and you’re not exactly sure what it was about.
A Love Letter to Pursuers
This one is harder to write. Why? Because I’m a pursuer. I see you and I get you - a little too much sometimes.
A Love Letter to Withdrawers
You’re like a deer in the woods. When you come out, everyone is nervous to make a wrong move - you’re so beautiful and we want you to stay.
Attachment Dilemma Brought to You by Spiderman
Feel it. Don’t ask for anything from your clients. Just be a mirror to their collective pain.
Betrayal Trauma: Bricks in a Shared Wall
Some say this is the #1 most challenging presentation in couples work. And, yet - if you work with couples, you can’t get away from working with betrayal trauma.
The Power of Professionalism
The debate of the nation was happening right in front of my eyes, only this time in the confines of my therapy couch, sparks flying between a couple.